Ma famille et moi

Bonjour, Je suis Jiao Wei, J' habite Johor.

Mes parents habitent à Melaka. J'ai trois soeur, Je suis le plus jeune.

Je suis étudiante,  j'etudie français.

J'adore langue, je parle d'anglais, chinois et thai.

Time to practice more. I have forget everything in class!

Random post: Sue Anne and me

I never ready to leave Penang because of my crazy buddy there. One of the girl that accompany me for all the sports that I have been into.

We started our friendship from the day we step in USM, not the course mate, but faith has brought us throughout the years and until today. In front of her, I am another crazy people.

Still remember first semester, she invited me for dinner with her new friends Kem Pimpin Siswa, and also our first National Day in USM was hiking to Monkey Beach. She is one of those who accompany me jogging besides Elizabeth, she called me crazy during our first year for joining Half Marathon, but she joined it for two years since 2013, gradually increased from Fun run to 21 km. She thought me on focus on the legs and running without wasting energy on talking instead of training. She is also the one who makes me run further.

She is also the one makes me keep returning to the national park for hiking.

The last time we finally went to the Lighthouse before graduation. 

She is the one who brought me to the badminton court first time in USM and we had a crazy one hour session between both of us non stop and I realized jogging is not sufficient for a sports (I sweats crazily, with hands shaking and also the face turned bloody red and she is just not enough. The difference between a college representative and an ordinary people. LOL), and then only I started to go with my course mates and continue my badminton after about 5 years not touching it.

She asked me to join the badminton match in USM 

but she gone crazy during the game and we lost it. LOL

Other than that, she is also the one who accompany me for swimming when in stress, without much of words, she will just appear if she is free and we will dump ourselves in to the water and enjoy ourselves.

She is an easy going people, she joined my course mates activities as well, we often joke that she is also part of us, she entered the wrong course. By the way, she is an architecture student. It is often weird that you have a mates who are totally an opposite but then we are just mixing around anywhere.

We traveled together also, last time she listed out a few places she wanted to visit and then two crazy people explore Kuching city together, my first drinking experience for "Tuak" in the hostel and two drunk people in the room.

I left USM earlier than her and she is now in her final year of Part II in architecture. Busy for her final year project. Few times I had been teasing her of don't know cooking (Hardly imagine when she really found her Mr.Right and then be a wife and then mother) and now she also stay outside of the campus and kept showing off of her cooking skill.

I am really glad to meet such a great buddies back in my university. Simply she is just too awesome. Lets keep our promises to have trip together at least once a year! Starting 2016 the latest.

Both in 2013 and 2014 for our run in Penang Bridge Marathon.

The Power of Words

Recently, I am addicted to the China Program "I am Speaker" (我是演说家）.

Giving a speech on public has been a history to me back far before I  was 10 years old and I am trying so hard to memorize the story line. I often also failed due to lost of words, and there after I am no longer dare to speak on the stage anymore.

Then, I focused on writing, a place where I can rehearse for thousands time before I publish them. An article can be revised again before I share with people.

I salute people who are able to speak out their opinion immediately. Often, I became the listener rather than the speaker. There is a few people that soon realized that I somehow talk more than I listen when I get used to the environment. But it takes time.

It takes time for me to build a sentences and spells out the words.

Well, but words have given me a strong emotion, to motivate people and also vice verse.

I can easily hurt people with the sentences, especially when I lost my patient. Sometimes I talk far before the mind can read.

Change of environment, also change of a whole bunch of people around, I am still learning the way each and everyone interact, and with my old buddies.

A facial expression can easily spells out your thinking, but the wording that you use could easily express your facial expression as well.

Keep reaching out for the positive and bring people out of negative thoughts. Life has got two phase, it is how you transform them into the part code, 0 or 1, or the combinations.

Everyone has got their tasks to learn and to teach. I am still learning the balance, people often teach me but I am just clueless on how to share with others.

Well well, life is a learning process.

It is Christmas Eve! A party night to people, a relaxing night for me!

Simply choose a picture as it looks too plain for my blog posts. 

Life is as simple as learning a new language from ABC. 

Can you recognize what language is this? 

XD

December: Festive or Farewell or a Year End Fighting?

Time has been travelling fast, it is end of the year, with a lot of celebrations coming soon, Dongzhi, Christmas and also New Year. It should be a happy month to go. But so much happening that we don't even have the celebrations mood but more of a complicated one.

Everyone has been facing different situation and changes in life.

Four months, enough of farewell until you realize that the world suddenly become so small that people keep travelling, say hello and goodbye. Just like they never leave but yet you are just here, seems like with a lot of people, but, another but, sometimes you just keep yourself alone.

Loneliness is scary. That is what people commonly think. But keeping your own alone, is a different story than lonely. Keep yourself calm, analysis needs rational. That is what the reality thought us.

A teacher once thought us Physics in a humor way: Heat Capacity vs the change of Temperature, the higher the heat capacity the lower the temperature change. A person with "lower" heat capacity, he/she gets angry easily even just a small matter, but it can be easily goes back to the normal condition, whereas one with high capacity will remains calm nor matter what happen, but since it will still have its own limit and one day it will still gets angry, when it happens, it takes time for it to lower down.

Chinese also says, 物极必反. Being moderate of everything, being as ordinary as you can, not a big deal. Simple is the best, but anyone would want it to be just simple?

Most of us wish that we will become somebody, we fight for life and target to achievement. All will have its own dream to realize. It is only half a year gone from wonderful university. Take it easy and eventually a snail will reach the tip of the leaf one day.

Life in JB?

I am starting to get out of control of everything.

This morning, I wake up as usual, then look at my Kambing, suddenly feel like to take off its clothes and bully it. Too stressful and indeed, I missed a long vacation. So fast a year going to finish again. 

Too much of happening this year, from Degree Final Year, then blur blur look like my Kambing, I started my working life. Out of control, three of us from different gangs get in the same company. I am relying them to survive in a new environment. Iznie and Bariqi. 

Desaru Half Day Trip with them and Sang Mei

And also a few of my seniors and USM-mates, etc etc, whom are really out of expectation. I knew that there are a few seniors working in this company, thanks to the chain reaction, I am taken good care by all of them, my colleagues. 

Rock of Age's Annual Dinner 

It has been four months here, if according to the university life, one semester is coming to an end soon. I am not sure how would be the 'result' for this semester, but I know I have gained a lot within this period, new job, new friends, new places, new food, although the most I gain now is going to be weights.

And thanks to senior, I have got the chance to join for the badminton session over the weekend.

Badminton gang went for the "Run for Love“ marathon.

Another surprise that I have gained is to know more friends from all around the world. China girl, Sun Chen has been following wrong people （遇人不淑？？）, she has been following me this non local to explore JB, so end up she only can join the badminton session during the Sunday. Haha.

The only place that I brought her is to Melaka, which is guided by "mama" Ms. Doreen. 

And my ex-housemate, Francis and her brother Jia Wei, both are based in China now. 

Part of the summary in this four months here in JB, there are still others that not capture in here. Life have been fast forwarding each day, I wish time can wait me slowly but it will not listen to me.

Just a rough updates of my life and people here in JB. After all, I am still the kiddo facing the laptop after work.

Life is just like the chemical, it reacts to what treatment has been done to it, which makes it predictable and unpredictable, which makes it colorful. 

Jiao Wei's Convocation (08 Nov 2014)

November has been a busy month since the beginning.

After visited my friend's convocation at UTM on the 2nd November, finally it reach my convocation.

Convocation is just a ceremony for me to get my transcript as well as for my family to witness the end of the journey for my study life. Since I have already started working, so the result seems like is not really a critical issues for me.

I have been requesting for teddy bears instead of graduation flowers due to the shelf life of the gift. Whenever people ask or sometimes I requested myself, I will tell people that I want a teddy, which I guess since I first step in university.

Of course, no one actually give me any response on that.

But it is my convocation. It is out of my expectation that I got receive many bears from my friends, a total of  5 big bears that occupied my bed now. >.<

First one thanks to my seniors, Chia Li, Doreen and Lee Hoon. Those are three seniors that play an important guide for my degree life, with special faith that I can say that I have meet them and get to know them.

Then is my buddies after Form 6, I don't remember when I requested him for a bear, suddenly he remember it and bought it for my convocation along with a dinner. One brother that listens when I start mumbling to him. LOL. Good luck for your master life and may you to proceed with doctoral degree. Hehe.. Then I will have a PhD friend. Ha ha.

Third one was given by Elizabeth, although I have failed my mission to make her slim down during our degree year, and keep bringing her to all the nice food in Pinang, she still gave me a big teddy bear in exchange with my tiny teddy keychain. Ha ha. Hope that she will be getting a new life back to Sabah, and of course I am still wishing to see her slim down in a healthy body one day.

Miss Sue Anne gave me a baby teddy bear. Among them it is really a fatty and cutie. She wrote me a note, I know that she missed me in USM, and me too, missing her in another town. We knew each other in a weird way, since the day we enter USM, and our weird friendship stays until today, it is really a miracle since we are not course-mates, nor roommate, but just stay at the same hostel building. No doubt, my uni life adds a lot of craziness because of her and Elizabeth.

Finally, the last bear was from my juniors. It go down to my 5th generation. I got to admit that I really grown up already. I was lucky that I get to know them all at least until the 4th generation. Each one is actively involved in clubs and society. Not sure if we have faith to meet in the future. But still thanks a lot. hahaha.

Now I have one family of teddy bear occupied my bed.

Some of them got to follow me go back to Melaka this weekend.

And it has a few other gifts from my friends and family.

It is what I call myself lucky of having each and every family and friends around.

Graduation, indicating the end of my undergraduate journey, it has been almost three months of working life before graduation. I am glad that we are all made it through our 4 years university. Memories will not fade, it would be always on my mind.

p/s: Sorry for not uploading much photo yet. The photographer, Mr Gold Fish's parcel just arrive home this morning.

And since mentioned about him, thanks a lot to be the photographer of the day and also his brother's help to help me to carry the presents as well. Although both saw my last time photo and get excited to see the contrast of the before and after me then keep snap photo for it. >.<

UTM Convo 02 Nov 2014

Just a post to add on here. 

It is almost three months in Johor Bahru, although still a newbie here but yeah I been joining my friend to explore around this place. After went to  my girlfriend's convocation at UTHM, Batu Pahat, here is another Sunday event to visit my friends's campus at UTM, Skudai. 

I am a lazy person, if not of any reason that I can find, I will just stay at home and grow mushroom. So finding another partner to join me would be a good key to make my movement. Thanks to my girl girl that come and go with me. It is a long lost date for both of us also. 

Here are two of my buddies, one Sock Ting who always get tease by me and yet she just entertain me if she is free that time. Hehe.. Once upon a table and study mate that motivate me to study as well. Another one is Mr Bong, a nice brother that I had that I shared a lot of complaints to him too. 

Congratulations to both of them and of course there do have others that graduate this week. But lazy bug only able to attend for those in Johor, as the nearest one. 

My mood was up and down over the last week. Worrying for one friend of mine but couldn't help much. Trying to push myself to be motivated also failed due to laziness. Everything is hanging, I don't like it. Working or not working both are having its own pros and cons. 

I will need to grab the lesson again on the Penang Marathon thanks to my laziness. I am not sure if  my legs are able to stand for the long distance. But anyway a go is a must. >.< 

November is going to be travel fast again, with finally my turn of convocation and also Penang Marathon. Will it be the month marks my farewell with Penang? I do hope it is not. But Life Must Go On

It is not only yesterday, everyday is a new beginning, I am glad that where I am now. Learn a thing a day, a new city is really a new adventure journey for me. Three months here is not long, but the experience here are awesome. Looking forward to continue explore the journey, with bunch of great friends here. Without friends, I would be able to walk out of any way. 

So, congratulations for all my friends, who graduate in year 2014, I have missed out a lot, finally we say goodbye to our degree life and each of us have their working life or continue with study again. 

And also my uni-mates that are graduating next week, finally it is our turn and sorry that I  won't be able to join most of it as well. Congratulations and may all of you finds the passions in life. Love what you do is the most blessed that one could have. 

Penang, I am BACK!!! Soon.. 

Marathon and Me

Back to 5 years back, I am not a marathon runner.

The marathon I join before that, it was just for the co-curriculum marks as it is international level, which was only 5 km and 10 km. The 10 km one was killing me from walking for two weeks after the run. It was me, at the age of 16.

But faith has drawn me into the world of marathon when I came to Penang. I had my first half marathon run during my first year when my uncle registered for me to experience a "real" run, and when that time, my friends around was thinking that I must be crazy to go for the 21-km distance.

I am not sure whether I am crazy enough, but since I have already registered with it so will just try for my best. Without much thought (I have no confidence that I can make it also, but will go for the full journey), I did it!

Since then, it became an annual event to join, to keep myself workout and also for an annual review of myself during the long journey (without Facebook but just running). You run with thousands of people, from 5 years old to 70 years old.

Some well equipped with their sports attires, some uncle just constant walking ahead to finish the journey and some looking for people at the same speed and try to run together. I am one of them, one who constantly look for a target and try to speed up. It can be a human, can be a trademark, can be a milestone, anything that keeps me running.

One thing that kept constant: I ran alone, always.

Finally I feel bored with the 21 km journey after three times of running. So started looking for people to join me for Full marathon during my final year in USM. I don't know whether I can make it, but I started to really study about marathon running, reading books, go for workshop to learn about proper way of running.

And this year, without much consideration like last year, I join for the Full marathon again, although still not much training. Timing is always not the concern when  the journey is the concern that you completed it and when seeing the youngster and elderly that run together with you with different targets to achieve.

Yes, it is almost time again for Penang Marathon this year. Time to countdown for it and last year I failed to achieved it on time. So it will be the target to finish within the time and also preventing myself from injury is also one of the task so that I am able to finish the journey at least.

Marathon has brings a lot of memories of training and courage from people around me, because without the courage I won't be able to break my own  challenge for Full marathon, without the people I don't even will consider for the second Half marathon run.

And one more lesson that it tells me too that I need to revise each year, to be humble and be yourself, you know your legs and run with your speed, it is no wrong that you break your timing record each year but what is matters is to protect yourself from injury for this long journey, so that you can reach the end point and go for the medal.

Which is one of the believe that I hold strong for living, be humble and just do your best.

Me with my favorite pyjamas

What do you want to achieve in life?

I have been asking myself for a couple of years for this question, what is my targets in life?

Is that one must have written down their wishes then realized it one by one?

Years ago, I dream to become an engineer, without knowing what exactly engineer is doing, it is just because I like Physics and Mathematics. But reality have pull me down when I finally failed myself in my Physic test and I start thinking again of walking through this path. Since then, I lost my way of where I wanna to go.

Where is the strongest point you hold?

To be honest it is a hard question for me to answer.

I thought I am observant but I do realized I missed out important points sometimes.
I thought I like challenges but I do step backwards when there is uncertainties, unless one thing, when there is no way of return.

If I have a choice, I am willing to be one who gives support to the people  instead of accept the support from others. But the world is rotating in a circle, there must be two ways instead of just a single pathway.

Walk out from the study platform to working life, I thought my job will be ended up in lab, hiding at the corner and do  my work. But lucky or not, I have been sitting in  the office, dress nicely and dealing with people everyday, whether in or out from the office.

Glance back of the journey, which of the pathway is all well planned?

No, it doesn't. Each of the journey is made unplanned and it bring me to where I am today, which I am also confusing where do I reach now.

So until this stage, I thought I can still to be who I am for the initial few years while I get my work experience. Life has been like fast forward now, people start asking what is your goal in the next 3 years?

Is it one must have a target in order to strikes and climb?

I always thought I will just do the best for what is available and get ready when the time comes.

But no, I have missed out also a lot of opportunity given because of not holding them strong enough.

Yeah, it time to think about why and what I want to achieve for life and make a real plan for it. Muahahaha

Back to my old nest (blog) + Batu Pahat gateways for my loved one

At one point of life, this blog was really too many memories for me that I need a break from it, so I abandoned it and open for a new one.

A part of my life that I have my important growing stage of the life, where I am actively mix around the people, and travel and getting  new experience. In one stage, I think that I have really gone too much, forgotten the most  important personal development, which is to take care of the little introvert kids behind me.

But look like opening for two different email is a trouble, I failed to combine them into one and log in and out each time make me thinking to come back to this old nest. Also, find the balance of me of getting the introvert and extrovert a damn and just be whoever I am.

So this blog will be reactivate again, but anyway I do realize that I am a bit restricting myself from blogging.

Come back to recent story of mine, life has been really fast forward to an extreme now.

Life in JB for almost 2.5 months, people don't call you a newbie in the office anymore, although I am still thinking that I am new. Anyway, a lot of things need to be learn around, and a lot of people is being introduce each day.

I am really luckily, having a lot of old faces here when I first arrive, my marathon kaki and senior, Lee Hoon and Doreen, said hello to the far-distance relative in Kulai with my family, I did also have a few of my buddies study/studied in UTM, my coursemates which enter the same company and also who stay here.

One of which surprising me is my old buddies Nicholas is also working in JB, which I thought he is back to his hometown at Selangor. and that I also managed to met one of my super senior back in middle school that worked in Singapore, had dinner with her and shared our stories. Good thing is she found her future ones and going to be get married next year maybe.

Love stories that is always around me that I am always not alone. I am also feeling in love also, just that the love I getting is from the buddies around me. Nor matter where I go.
The journey long enough for me to trace back all the thick and thin that in every part of the life I met these people and that make my life filled with all different stories. How lucky!

One best friend of mine is non other than my girlfriend, whom I met her 10 years ago during my middle school, whom listen to me along the years and whom she also introduce me as her boyfriend. Hahahaha

We have been promising each other to visit our university, and she had been visited me at Penang twice during my second and final year,

but I have never able to make it to my promise. And finally, I have been to the South Malaysia after years of heading to North, but I had never thought our distance is still quite far away.

Well, by hook or by crook, I try to be stubborn to visit her during her convocation last weekend, I know it is going to be a tiring week for her but I insisted, just to make sure I visited the place that she have been growing for 4 years and trying to touch up to the unexplored area of hers.

So, yea, last week, I thought of the 1.5 hours journey has become 2.5 hours due to the jam and weather, tired but feel it contented. Met her new working colleagues, coursemates, juniors, church mates, and of course, her family.

Nothing much I really spend, due to I go there empty hand and also she treated me for the meals. So basically I really just go there and dress nicely to take some photo for her convocation. See so many people that around her, that treated her so great that I really happy for her.

I am glad too, have her around me to share my happiness and also dark moment. Hope the best for her future undertaking and I know that she is doing it really well, despite the complaints that she just got darker. LOL

Forgive me end up to have a not wake up face.